::my dear diary::

lokasi : Ciputat Raya
waktu: pk 11.00 malam

dua kakak beradik hendak mampir ke mini mart untuk beli titipan, sekaligus beli 'makanan-sampah' [aka junk food]...lalu kejadian bermula...
lalu turunlah mereka & belanja di mini mart... selesai membayar feeling si kakak dah ga enak...
sampailah mereka di depan kasir junk-food, terjadi sedikit drama ga penting...
setelah melalui pembicaraan yang alot, lalu si mba2 dengan berat hati manggil managernya trus mereka disuruh cuci piring... [hahahhaa ga denk...] akhirnya bisa di-cancel... fiuhhh lega...
CABUTTTT!!!!

whuaaaa malunyaaa, udah mesennya lama pake acara diskusi panjang dulu di depan kasir, ehhh ga bisa bayar gara2 minta tambah orange juice, padahal kan kalo dari awal cuma mesen main course aja ga bakal ketauan kalo dompet kosong...huhuuhuhuhu sungguh terlalu...

moral cerita:
- pastikan dompet ada uangnya sebelum memutuskan untuk membeli apapun
- kalau transaksi terakhir nominal terakhir di dompet dah minim, mendingan buru2 ke ATM dech
- kalau kejadian kaya cerita diatas, pastikan pasang wajah memelas nan ayu dan mata berbinar2 [kaya puss in boots di shrek 2] dijamin pasti hati penjualnya luluh...

I always needed time on my own
I never thought I'd need you there when I cry
And the days feel like years when I'm alone
And the bed where you lie
Is made up on your side

When you walk away
I count the steps that you take
Do you see how much I need you right now?

When you're gone
The pieces of my heart are missing you
When you're gone
The face I came to know is missing too
When you're gone
The words I need to hear to always get me through the day
And make it OK
I miss you

I never felt this way before
Everything that I do
Reminds me of you
And the clothes you left
They lie on the floor
And they smell just like you
I love the things that you do

We were made for each other
Out here forever
I know we were

All I ever wanted was for you to know
Everything I do I give my heart and soul
I can hardly breathe I need to feel you here with me

-------------- a song by Avril Laveigne----------------

hmm lagi iseng2 baca blog seseorang di suatu sore... dan ga sengaja nemu info menarik yang relatif baru n rasanya belum terlalu banyak [terutama para calon ibu] yang aware akan hal ini... mengenai tema dari pekan ASI sedunia tahun ini adalah Inisiasi Menyusu Dini; menyelamatkan 1 juta Bayi.
Temen2 yang mau melahirkan, atau kamu2 yang punya teman yang mau melahirkan, sebarkan deh berita ini. Faktanya, kalau semua melakukan inisiasi menyusu dini ini, satu juta bayi akan terselamatkan. Ternyata bayi umur satu jam sudah memiliki survival instinct. Nggak ada bedanya sama kucing atau marmot.. kitapun sudah diberikan kemampuan mencari sumber kehidupan. Kan kucing atau marmot lahir nggak pake bidan.
Kalau kamu ingin tahu prosesnya secara step by step, ibu Utami memberikan list dibawah ini:

1. Anjurkan suami atau keluarga mendampingi ibu saat melahirkan yang tepat, sensitif dan mendukung ibu
2. Sarankan untuk mempergunakan cara yang tidak mempergunakan obat kimiawi dalam menolong ibu saat melahirkan ( pijat, aroma therapi dsb)
3. Biarkan ibu menentukan cara dan posisi melahirkan

4. Keringkan bayi secepatnya tanpa menghilangkan vernix yang menyamankan kulit bayi
5. Tengkurupkan bayi di dada atau perut ibu dengan kulit bayi melekat pada kulit ibu. Selimuti keduanya. Kalau perlu menggunakan topi bayi
6. BIARKAN BAYI MENCARI PUTING SUSU IBU SENDIRI . Ibu dapat merangsang bayi dengan sentuhan lembut. Bila perlu ibu boleh mendekatkan bayi pada puting tapi JANGAN MEMAKSAKAN bayi ke puting susu
7. Biarkan bayi dalam posisi kulit bersentuhan dg kulit ibu sampai proses menyusu pertama selesai
8. Ibu melahirkan dg proses operasi berikan kesempatan skin to skin contact
9. Bayi dipisahkan dari ibu untuk ditimbang, diukur, dicap, SETELAH MENYUSU DINI selesai. Tunda prosedur yang invasive
10. Hindarkan pemberian minuman pre-laktal

i think it's nice to share this info, walopun aku belom masuk ke fase sejauh ini, even menikah pun belom, hehehe tapi cari tahu sah2 aja kan?!itung2 preparation, halahhh...
enjoy, yummy mommy & happy daddy...

[37] Each day Jesus was teaching at the temple, and each evening he went out to spend the night on the hill called the Mount of Olives, [38] and all the people came early in the morning to hear him at the temple.

What Lessons Does Judas' Betrayal Teach Us as Disciples?

To me, Judas is a very sober example of how a good disciple can go bad.

1. His betrayal is hidden from his closest associates. I find it interesting that though the Apostle John is aware of Judas' weakness for money and theft (John 12:6), he doesn't know who the betrayer is until Jesus tells him. All the disciples had weaknesses and patterns of sin -- that's how sinful humans are. So that Judas has a recurrent sin is no indication to anyone that he is a betrayer. It is possible for you and I to betray Jesus in our heart without anyone knowing. Except Jesus. Jesus knows.
2. Judas' sin ruins him -- and others. It makes him vulnerable to the seducing voice of Satan. Our sins can ruin us, too. And, very possibly, those around us whom we love.
3. Is it I? We'll look at this further, but the disciples at the Last Supper don't know who will betray Jesus, and each wonders if it might be himself? Each of us has in us the seeds of betrayal. We must be vigilant.
4. Even Jesus has one of his leaders turn against him. Sometimes as Christian leaders we castigate ourselves when one of our leaders turns against us. What did I do wrong? we ask. But even Jesus had this happen. Yes, good leadership is important, but the root of failure lies within the person, not necessarily the leader.
   

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Prayer

Father, have mercy upon all of us. Forgive us our sins and purge us of them, lest they cause us to betray you. Give us the grace of repentance. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.